(Take our ‘He Didn’t Propose’ quiz to find out whether your man sees marriage in your future.) He has not even considered you as wife material yet.
If you ask him what he needs from the relationship to be ready to take the next step and he says, “I don’t know,” then he isn’t thinking of your future together in the same way that you are. He’s the man of your dreams and he says you are the woman of his. You tried not to get your hopes up, but deep down you feel like it is time. It doesn’t mean if you hang around for another six months or a year or two that he will be ready. It doesn’t mean that you need to be a better girlfriend. If a guy says, “I’m just not ready”-he’s not ready. Women usually try to read too much into their statements. Guys are usually pretty straightforward with their information (unless they’re totally shady and that’s another article). Believe what he tells you (or doesn’t tell you)! Let him know that you have been thinking more and more about your future and that you want to find out from him what his plans are and how you fit into them. This is not just his life, after all, this is your life too. If this is a man you want to spend the rest of your life with, you should feel comfortable enough with him to talk about a future. This is such a mistake.ĭesperation comes across in your tone and energy-not necessarily in your words. Many women don’t want to ask the commitment question because they feel like it may be pushy and make them look desperate. That’s not true, but there are a couple of things you may need to look at. You may feel like this is never going to happen for you. Feel it, girl! Process it and then get to action. You’re sad, a little angry, hurt, and jealous. You are starting to wonder how committed he really is…
You even dropped some hints.īut the holidays came and went, Cupid was a no-show, and we’re in the dead heat of summer, but still, there’s no little box and your man’s not down on one knee.
Maybe you were hoping it would happen over the holidays… Then, Valentine’s Day… Or, perhaps you were daydreaming about the perfectly planned summer proposal leading to a beautiful fall marriage. And it doesn’t help that it seems like everyone’s boyfriend is popping the question these days! You’ve been together long enough for him to know if he wants to make that big commitment.
To the girl who didn’t get the engagement you were expecting, this is what you need to do to finally get a commitment…
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